I and this is sad to say but I remember the day Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston got married. Why you might ask? Well I was and still am totally in love with him and also that is the day my best friend Melissa got married. I used to tease her about getting married on the same day my man did. LOL. I remember years later reading a article where my Brad said he didnt know whether or not being married and staying with one person your whole life was ideal. WTF Brad? Holy hotness I bet Jen read that and had a moment. I sure would have. Fast forward a few and boom he cheated on her with BIG LIPS and boom that marriage was over and Jen was left heartbroken and Brad was living the high life, adopting kids not hiding the fact that he was still married when he started parking his car inside of BIG LIPS garage. Fast forward till today where I read that Brad now said "I felt pathetic married to Jennifer Aniston". Ok wow. First off SHUT UP I know he came back and said it was taken wrong and blah blah blah. Ok look Brad um bottom line you need to shut your hot hole and stop talking about her and your marriage.
Which brings me to my topic tonight. Was Brad right? Are we as humans able to be with one person faithfully or whole lives? Right now a bunch of yes are saying um yes I love my spouse, we are so happy, he/she is my best friend. I cant imagine my life without us as a couple. Ok fine I agree because at this time I feel all those. But didnt at one time Brad and Jen, Will and Jada, my Aunt and Uncle and the thousands of people who get divorced daily. No and I mean No marriage is without struggles obstacles and fights. If you dont have those then in my mind your marriage isnt real. If you dont disagree sometimes you might as well be married to your brother because peeps that means your marriage lacks passion. But at one point does the fighting turn to divorce? First off I will say bottom line ABUSE of any kind I wont stand. The next time any man would try to put his hands on me it would become the freaking burning bed up in here. We dont need no water let the mother fucker burn mother fucker. So yes if you are being abused I say get out and get out now. But I bet 95% of marriages end because people just stop caring or this is my favorite excuse: People grow apart. That has to be the lamest dumbest excuse I have heard. You dont spend 10-30 years with someone just to wake up one am and go I need to go to the store get milk drop off my annoying kids and oh yes I have grown apart from Mike add calling a lawyer to the mix. No I believe people get bored, they think hmm what have I missed all these years? To make it society ok they say well we just grew apart. Oh fucking hogwash you desperate houswife. Your ass is bored plain and simple. Fight for your marriage make it work.
Ships arent easy. I have been with my lobster for a total of 14 years, married for 7. We love hard and fight just as hard. At times I want to push him down a flight of about 100 stairs and at other times he simply takes my breath away. This is my first marriage and no matter how hard our struggles get I will fight for this marriage daily.
JD words of wisdom: Back to Brads question, well my answer is FUCK YES you can be with one person forever. Just have to work daily, love passionately, believe and first and foremost ass holes keep your cars parked only in the garage that you stood in front of god and your family and said I DO too.
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